LESSONS FROM THE PAST.

"The Gemini"


We often asked "What is life?"; "What is Love?"; "What is Life after the meaning of your life is gone or when your love ones chooses a different path?"; "What ? What now?"; "What is the Truth?"; "How can you get away of the pain and suffering?" There's a lot of questions in your head and everything is unanswered.

But somebody told me one thing and that is to do this first step and everything will be alright and you can be happy again. Its a long process but doing this will begin the journey in searching for the answers in your questions. This powerful word is "Acceptance".

In any tough journey, you will always find light in the darkness when you seek for it. The best way to seek for answers is to experience. You need to pray and listen. You need to suffer and recover. You need to ask questions and find out answers along the way. Therefore, you need to struggle in order for you to learn.

Letting go is accepting everything what happened. Its accepting that you have weaknesses and that makes you human. Its accepting that you've given everything but not everything is in your control. Letting go is accepting the truth, and that truth really hurts. It is living with the pain and learning to heal. Letting go means you have a lot of love to give and that also means let your love ones to be happy in the choices they made, even if that means total sadness to you. Letting go is leaving your comfort zone. Its facing what is difficult and uncomfortable. It's being courageous. All of the things you've been afraid of is happening and you have to face it. Letting go is accepting that love needs to grow and it will whenever, wherever it wanted to. Love needs to be treasured but always prepare to let it go when it needed so. Love is only real when given and shared it without expecting anything in return. Letting go is remembering the past and acknowledging that you've both given all you've got for each other. Memories of love will never die. Whatever you do to prevent it, you'll never succeed. It will just past through your mind. It is embracing the thorns of love and bleed. The scars in your heart are the manifestation that you've given real love. Letting go is the beginning of your forgiveness. It means accepting that everybody is just human and human beings aren't perfect including you. Letting go is never the end of anything, but rather its a new beginning of everything.

Love is ironic in many ways. You keep it but you also need to let it go. So letting go is merely part of life... Letting go will give birth to a new meaning in life and that's the truth. Accept the truth and be free from everything once again.

- The Free lover